Your summer forecast?

Hot, hands-on, and very intimate. 

Explore 8 sensual touch techniques together in our member-exclusive July challenge — all designed to build confidence, spark connection, and help you touch each other like it’s the first time again.

Unlock this challenge and our entire library of intimacy resources when you join Deeper.

I want the challenge!

Science-backed, pleasure-approved.

Make this summer the hottest one yet 🔥

Touch isn’t just something that “feels nice” — it’s essential to long-term intimacy. 
Research shows that couples who engage in regular, intentional touch have lower stress, stronger emotional bonds, and even higher sexual desire over time. 
It’s one of the most powerful (and underused) ways to stay connected — and this challenge helps you make it a habit.

What’s inside the challenge

Live Q&A with
Vanessa + Xander

8 Guided Techniques

Downloadable Workbook

to ask your questions and go deeper together.

for different areas of the body — from scalp to shoulders and every where else 😉

to help you reflect, connect, and record your feedback for one another so it just keeps getting better.

Join Deeper to get access

4 weeks. 8 body parts. 1 powerful way to reconnect.

The Sensual Touch Challenge kicks off July 7th.

How it works

With easy to follow instructions, The Sensual Touch challenges are flexible — whether you’ve got 10 minutes or 30 minutes, you’ll feel everything. 

Each week, watch the 2 video lessons. We'll walk you through hands-on techniques for each body part.

You can go slow, revisit lessons, or double up if you're feelin’ it — there’s zero pressure and all pleasure. 

Choose your plan.

Deeper is our all-access membership for couples who want to feel closer, communicate better, and reignite intimacy — even with full schedules and zero extra bandwidth.

If you don’t love it, cancel anytime — no awkward breakups required.

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This early bird bonus expires at 11:59pm on June 30th!

Because we all have days when we don’t quite feel at home in our bodies. This isn’t about “fixing” your confidence — it’s about supporting you through real, human moments with compassionate, inclusive tools that help you reconnect, reframe, and reclaim the way you see and feel about yourself.

Think of it like your body-acceptance pep talk, ready to go whenever you need it.

21 Science-Backed Techniques For Loving Your Body

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Everything inside Deeper

Deeper is the only membership designed to give you an instant, all-access pass to real, therapist-backed guidance on demand — so you can get expert strategies and tools for exactly what your relationship needs, exactly when you need it. 

Private invitation for our exclusive online community (value $240/year)

From communication to confidence, initiation to intimacy, you’ll get full access to our best-selling courses and guides, including:
🔥 Your Best Week Ever – $29
🔥 The Ultimate Foreplay Guides – $69
🔥 The Art of Initiation – $89
🔥 The Ultimate Sex Guide – $99
🔥 Dirty Talk 101 – $69
🔥 Butt Stuff – $69
🔥 Rediscovering Us: Intimacy & Sex For Parents – $199
🔥 The Sexual Bucket List – $29
🔥 The Mental Load Workbook – $25
🔥 The Modern Man’s Guide to Conquering Performance Pressure – $249
🔥 Rediscovering Desire – $99
🔥 And so much more…
From communication to confidence, initiation to intimacy, you’ll get full access to our best-selling courses and guides, including:

🔥 The Ultimate Foreplay Guides – $69
🔥 The Art of Initiation – $89
🔥 The Ultimate Sex Guide – $99
🔥 Dirty Talk 101 – $69
🔥 Butt Stuff – $69
🔥 Your Best Week Ever – $29
🔥 Rediscovering Us: Intimacy & Sex For Parents – $199
🔥 The Sexual Bucket List – $29
🔥 The Mental Load Workbook – $25
🔥 The Modern Man’s Guide to Conquering Performance Pressure – $249
🔥 Rediscovering Desire – $99
🔥 And so much more…

Vanessa AI – your personal sex & relationship coach (value $1,200/year)

Ever wished you could get instant advice from a top-tier sex therapist — anytime you need it?

With Vanessa AI, you’ll have access to everything Vanessa has ever taught — her courses, guides, podcasts, and teachings — available 24/7.

❌ 1-on-1 therapy with Vanessa would cost $500-$750 per session 

✅ Instead, Deeper gives you access to her entire knowledge base, personalized to your questions and situation.

This is the next best thing to having an expert sex and relationship therapist on speed dial — without the hefty price tag.

Instant access to our core course library (over $800+ value!)

Ongoing monthly benefits so you keep growing & connecting (value $199)

Building a stronger relationship is easier with encouragement, guidance, and the right people by your side.

A judgment-free space to ask questions, share experiences, and celebrate wins.

Direct engagement from Vanessa + Xander — we’ll be inside the community, cheering you on, guiding conversations and offering insights.

A built-in support system of like-minded people who are committed to deepening their relationships — so you always have people who get it.

Real talk, real connection — whether you’re celebrating progress or working through challenges, this is your place to show up exactly as you are.
🎥 Live monthly double dates with us – Deep dives into the topics you care about most.

📝 Guided relationship check-Ins – So you’re always making progress together.

💡 Bite-sized exercises – Easy, actionable ways to keep your connection strong.

💞 Two monthly date night ideas – One cute, one sexy — so you never fall into a rut.

We’ve helped hundreds of thousands of people transform their relationships through our courses, guides, and coaching.

The proof is in the passion.

Here’s what they’ve had to say about deeper:

Hey there — we’re Vanessa & Xander Marin.

Vanessa is a licensed sex therapist with 20+ years of experience, and Xander is her husband, real-life case study, and your friendly neighborhood “regular dude” breaking down the real deal of relationship work.

Together, we help couples have way better sex and way deeper relationships — without shame, confusion, or pressure.

We built Deeper because we wanted this for ourselves. 

We’ve gone through our own seasons of feeling disconnected, navigating mismatched libidos, and wondering: how do we actually make things better?

This membership is our answer. It’s the resource we wish we’d had!

AS SEEN IN:

Your Relationship, Transformed.

With the right tools, the right guidance, and small, intentional steps, your love life won’t just improve— it will evolve into something deeper, stronger, and more fulfilling than ever.

And the best part? You don’t have to figure it out alone anymore. 

👉 Join Deeper today and start creating the relationship and sex life you truly deserve.
Instead of feeling stuck in the same old routines, you wake up excited about your relationship again.
Conversations flow effortlessly — not just about logistics, but about dreams, desires, and the things that make you both feel alive.
Physical intimacy feels more natural, exciting, and connected — because you finally understand each other’s needs and desires in a whole new way.

This is what’s possible inside Deeper.

Imagine this…

You’re laughing more, flirting more, and feeling that undeniable spark — not because you’re forcing it, but because your relationship is finally thriving.

You have questions. We have answers.

Do I need a ton of time and energy to commit to this? 

Nope! We know life is full — kids, work, responsibilities, and all the things pulling you in different directions. That’s why Deeper is designed to fit seamlessly into your life. Whether you have 10 minutes one day or want to dive into a full guided journey, you can engage at your own pace. You’ll get expert-led tools that make it easy to take action — no overwhelm, just real, practical support for your relationship.

Can I really cancel anytime?

Yes! When you choose our monthly or quarterly payment option, you are free to cancel anytime and you aren't locked into any ongoing commitment. Just be sure to let us know a few days before your billing cycle recurs. To cancel, simply send us an email with your request. Be sure to include the email address you used to purchase. You'll retain access until the end of your billing cycle and won't be charged again in the future.

Your membership will automatically renew at the end of the billing cycle unless you let us know ahead of your next charge.

What if my partner and I have different needs?

That’s exactly why Deeper includes a personalized quiz that helps you pinpoint where to start. You’ll each get customized guidance based on what you need most — whether that’s better communication, bringing back the spark, or exploring new ways to connect. Think of it as a choose-your-own-adventure for your love life!

What if I don’t want to be in a community or interact with others?

Totally fair! While the Deeper community is an amazing space to connect with others on the same journey, it’s completely optional. You can still get full access to Vanessa AI, the guided journey, the content library, and all the expert-led resources — without ever posting in the community.

If you want to engage in the Deeper community but prefer to stay anonymous, choose a different name for yourself!

This is your experience, and you get to engage in whatever way feels right for you.

Can I join by myself, or do I have to do this with my partner?

Deeper is for anyone who wants to improve their relationship, whether you’re doing it solo or with a partner. Ideally, you’ll explore these tools together, but we know that’s not always possible. If your partner isn’t quite on board yet, you’ll still gain insights, strategies, and confidence to bring positive change into your relationship. And who knows? They might just get curious once they see the shifts happening!

Let's recap one more time.

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Here's everything you get...

The Sensual Touch Challenge - $99
Your Best Week Ever – $29
The Ultimate Foreplay Guides – $69
The Art of Initiation – $89
The Ultimate Sex Guide – $99
Dirty Talk 101 – $69
Butt Stuff – $69
Rediscovering Us: Intimacy & Sex For Parents – $199
The Sexual Bucket List – $29
The Mental Load Workbook – $25
The Modern Man’s Guide to Conquering Performance Pressure – $249
Rediscovering Desire – $99
Vanessa AI - $1,200
Private Community - $240
Monthly content drops - $199

Pick your plan & join today

Total Value: $2,763

This special offer expires 11:59pm, June 30th!

$20

Best Deal! Over 50% off!

Save 30%!

$564 $247 every year

$33

MOST POPULAR!

$47

YEARLY

JOIN DEEPER

MONTHLY

QUARTERLY

/mo

/mo

JOIN DEEPER

JOIN DEEPER

$141 $99 every 3 months

/mo

.58

$47 every month

If you don’t love it, cancel anytime — no awkward breakups required.