Give your partner the kind of foreplay that makes them forget their own name
Give your partner the kind of foreplay that makes them forget their own name
146 step-by-step hand and oral techniques, tested by tens of thousands of couples, that turn "I hope this is working" into "I know exactly what I'm doing!"
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Give (and receive!) “I didn’t know it could be THAT good” pleasure with The Ultimate Foreplay Guides.
Give (and receive!) “I didn’t know it could be THAT good” pleasure with The Ultimate Foreplay Guides.
146 step-by-step hand and oral techniques, tested by tens of thousands of couples, that turn "I hope this is working" into "I know exactly what I'm doing!"
Foreplay is the part of sex that determines everything else. The buildup. The anticipation.
And foreplay isn't just the warm-up. Only 10–15% of women can orgasm through intercourse alone, so they need foreplay to have a great time in the bedroom.
Whether you only have 10 minutes to skim the guides, or you want to spend an entire evening exploring, you’ll discover how to majorly elevate your experience.
And foreplay isn't just the warm-up. Only 10–15% of women can orgasm through intercourse alone, so they need foreplay to have a great time in the bedroom.
Whether you only have 10 minutes to skim the guides, or you want to spend an entire evening exploring, you’ll discover how to majorly elevate your experience.
When we surveyed our community, 88% of men and 85% of women said they'd love more foreplay. Yes, you read that right. Men AND women!
Which means you might be sitting there wishing for more foreplay while your partner is thinking… “You know what would be amazing? More foreplay!” So if you both want more of it, why isn't it happening?
Well, here's the thing: Most of us were never actually taught HOW to give incredible foreplay. We've been improvising for years, doing the same few moves we picked up early on, hoping they're working, and wondering if there's something we're missing.
There is. And once you know it, you can't unknow it!
Which means you might be sitting there wishing for more foreplay while your partner is thinking… “You know what would be amazing? More foreplay!” So if you both want more of it, why isn't it happening?
Well, here's the thing: Most of us were never actually taught HOW to give incredible foreplay. We've been improvising for years, doing the same few moves we picked up early on, hoping they're working, and wondering if there's something we're missing.
There is. And once you know it, you can't unknow it!
The moves your partner has secretly been waiting for. And the confidence to actually do them.
Turns out, EVERYONE wants more foreplay!
What's inside The Ultimate Foreplay Guides:
146 proprietary techniques, in written and audio format, for using your hands and mouth.
Beautiful animated GIFs, so you can see exactly what a technique looks like. No guessing.
CLICK HERE TO SEE THE GIFs IN ACTION 👀
(Don’t worry, they’re definitely not censored in the guides!)
Secret moves that make your partner stop mid-breath and forget their own name. Seriously. You’ll see.
Exactly what to do before, during, and after orgasm, move by move, so you always know what comes next. Because the whole arc matters, not just the finish.
31 positions, optimized for pleasure and comfort.
You also get instant access to these bonuses, for free:
That’s $200 worth of bonuses!
Make The Ultimate Foreplay Guides + bonuses yours for just $69! $49
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A short and quick lesson with the top tips for penis and vulva foreplay designed to get pleasure started right away.
Ultimate Foreplay Quick Start Guide
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The exact words and moves to get your partner excited and ready.
How to Initiate Foreplay
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Straightforward but effective tools for getting your partner on board with increasing the amount of foreplay.
How to Ask for More Foreplay
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We asked our audience, “What do you wish your partner understood about pleasuring you?” The answers were fascinating and actionable!
What Your Partner Secretly Wishes You Knew
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Our answers to what couples are actually stuck on, like what to do when your mouth gets tired or how to bring up hygiene without hurting anyone's feelings.
Solve All Your Foreplay Frustrations Q+A
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A fun worksheet you each fill out separately, then compare. Find out exactly what your partner loves in minutes!
The Foreplay Wish List
Ultimate Mutual Masturbation → Turn solo pleasure into a sexy shared experience with our tips for getting comfortable watching, touching, and showing each other exactly what feels good.
Ultimate 69ing → Get our favorite positioning tricks and clever adjustments for making simultaneous pleasure feel as good as it sounds.
Ultimate Face Sitting → Get our step-by-step tips for getting comfortable on top, finding the right position, and enjoying oral pleasure from a whole new angle.
Ultimate Squirting → Get ready to explore new sensations with step-by-step techniques to focus on your G-spot and make a serious splash between the sheets.
Ultimate Deep Throating → Ready to take things a little deeper? Explore this advanced oral technique with our expert tips for comfort, communication, and safety, plus some very satisfying alternatives.
Ultimate Afterplay → Discover sexy little rituals, playful ways to show appreciation, and simple techniques for making the most of your afterglow.
Ultimate 69ing → Get our favorite positioning tricks and clever adjustments for making simultaneous pleasure feel as good as it sounds.
Ultimate Face Sitting → Get our step-by-step tips for getting comfortable on top, finding the right position, and enjoying oral pleasure from a whole new angle.
Ultimate Squirting → Get ready to explore new sensations with step-by-step techniques to focus on your G-spot and make a serious splash between the sheets.
Ultimate Deep Throating → Ready to take things a little deeper? Explore this advanced oral technique with our expert tips for comfort, communication, and safety, plus some very satisfying alternatives.
Ultimate Afterplay → Discover sexy little rituals, playful ways to show appreciation, and simple techniques for making the most of your afterglow.
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No choosing your favorites. No adding them individually. You get the whole stocking.
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All six brand-new Ultimate mini-guides included FREE. $54 bonus value.
We've been very, very naughty this year.
This holiday season, we're playing Santa and stuffing your stocking with six brand-new Ultimate mini-guides, absolutely FREE when you get The Ultimate Foreplay Guides!
That's six very different ways to explore pleasure together, packed with expert tips, new techniques, and plenty of inspiration for getting a little more adventurous between the sheets.
Your FREE Holiday Bonus: All Six Ultimate Mini-Guides ($54 Value)
That's six very different ways to explore pleasure together, packed with expert tips, new techniques, and plenty of inspiration for getting a little more adventurous between the sheets.
Your FREE Holiday Bonus: All Six Ultimate Mini-Guides ($54 Value)
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"I feel like I unlocked a new level of pleasure."
Add on our brand new Full Body Foreplay!
Full Body Foreplay is a powerful toolkit you can use as a five-minute warm-up or a whole evening in itself.
Your body has nerve endings for pleasure everywhere, not just the obvious places. But most people skip right past nearly all of them.
This guide teaches you 13 proprietary techniques and maps them across 13 erogenous zones (from your scalp to your inner thighs), so you know exactly what to do and where.
This guide teaches you 13 proprietary techniques and maps them across 13 erogenous zones (from your scalp to your inner thighs), so you know exactly what to do and where.
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There's a lot of terrible sex advice out there.
Like, “put a donut around his dick and eat it off.” Or, “sprinkle pepper under your partner's nose right as they're about to orgasm because it will make the O stronger.” (Side note: please don’t ever do this!!)
That stuff is built for clicks, not for a committed couple in a bed together.
The Ultimate Foreplay Guides are built for real people who want more fun and more confidence between the sheets.
Built by licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin, refined over 20 years of clinical work, and tested by tens of thousands of real couples.
Real Techniques for
people.
They’re our best reviewed guides, and they’ll ensure your partner won’t be able to stop thinking about last night.
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What People Are Saying
think the guides won't work for you?
THANK YOU, THANK YOU. BEST investment we've made in awhile. I've been eyeing your courses for years and kept putting it off. This was truly not a waste of money at all! We both listened to it last night and that night had the best night since we first met 10 years ago! My SO is asking for another "practice" round tonight. Needless to say, it was good night 😉. The tips and communication brought us closer together and more intimate than ever before. Thank you for all that you do to help couples like us!
“Brought us closer together and more intimate than ever before.”
"Okay, we bought your foreplay guides, and I know this is tmi, but it's the nature of your job. Thank you. That was the most mind-blowing thing either one of us has ever experienced."
"The most mind-blowing thing either one of us has ever experienced."
I bought The Ultimate Foreplay Guides for my husband’s birthday and OH MY GOD. Our sex life has never been great but after reading the guide, we've had so much hotter, more connective, passionate sex. For the first time in our 11 year relationship, I thought about how much I'm looking forward to the next time we have sex. I can't wait to keep implementing the techniques. Thank you for everything you do 💕
“OH MY GOD.”
I am 37 years old, have been married for 15 years, and I had never in my life given a BJ. I bought your guide and after studying that and opening up with my husband about my worries and being extremely nervous, I gave him one last night! He gave me an A+++, said my technique was perfect, and said I have absolutely nothing to worry about with being so nervous. I actually enjoyed it so much I gave him another one first thing this morning! We both (especially my husband) thank you so much for what you do!!
“He gave me an A+++, said my technique was perfect,”
So instead of that $6,000 investment, we’re now able to offer you the same game-changing, next-level techniques for a truly incredible price…
Vanessa stopped offering one-on-one therapy and started building digital guides because she wanted her techniques to be accessible and affordable.
This used to cost a LOT more
So let’s jump back in time to what that would have looked like for you…
After finding a time that worked with her limited availability and your packed family calendar, sitting through rush hour traffic after work, hunting for a parking spot, and just barely making it to your appointment on time, you’d be paying her typical rate of $1,500 per session.
The information in these guides would take a minimum of four sessions to get through, so you’d be looking at a bill of $6,000 at least. (We still feel confident that you’d think it was worth every penny, but that’s a huge investment!)
Vanessa used to only teach these techniques to her one-on-one clients.
Only $69 $49!
And you get lifetime access to the guides!
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Vanessa I bought your 4play guides yesterday a little worried they wouldn't be worth it and OMG I WAS WRONG. They should be mandatory for adults. My partner was in heaven last night. Incredible. Thank youu!
“My partner was in heaven last night.”
My husband asked if I ever wondered if there were tips in the guide that we didn't know. I said I wonder all the time. We got the guides on Saturday and I'll just say we had an amazing night, twice which never happens for us, especially with 2 kids. Sooo worth it.
“Sooo worth it.”
Questions people ask before buying
Nope! Every technique is broken down step by step, in writing, audio, and GIFs, so you always know exactly what to do next, no experience required.
Yes! There's a big difference between “good” and getting that wide-eyed, surprised, “holy shit, that’s the best I’ve ever had!” response from your partner.
This guide has 146 techniques in it, so even if you're already confident, we promise you're going to find techniques you've never tried or even thought of. We regularly go through the guides ourselves, and always discover new ways to play!
This guide has 146 techniques in it, so even if you're already confident, we promise you're going to find techniques you've never tried or even thought of. We regularly go through the guides ourselves, and always discover new ways to play!
They’re tasteful, detailed, and genuinely helpful. You’ll be able to see exactly what goes into each technique and feel confident when it’s time to blow your partner’s mind with your new moves.
Plus, they add a sense of playfulness to the guides! We want you and your partner to feel the fun, no-stress joy of giving each other pleasure!
WARNING: These GIFs may even turn you on as you peruse the different techniques!
Plus, they add a sense of playfulness to the guides! We want you and your partner to feel the fun, no-stress joy of giving each other pleasure!
WARNING: These GIFs may even turn you on as you peruse the different techniques!
We think you’re going to have A LOT of fun going through the guides with your partner. We get messages all the time about how simply looking at the guides together leads to some unexpected (and totally spectacular) sex.
But 78% of people who buy the guides don’t tell their partners about it first. They just let the techniques do the talking.
So we give you our full permission to get the guides and skip the conversation! Once your partner asks, “Where did you learn that?” you can playfully respond, “I found something fun for us to explore together!”
But 78% of people who buy the guides don’t tell their partners about it first. They just let the techniques do the talking.
So we give you our full permission to get the guides and skip the conversation! Once your partner asks, “Where did you learn that?” you can playfully respond, “I found something fun for us to explore together!”
We want you to love The Ultimate Foreplay Guides and feel totally confident about your investment. If you dive in and realize it’s not the right fit, no worries. You can request a full refund within 5 days of purchase. No hard feelings.
Here’s more of what our thoroughly and completely SATISFIED customers are saying…
doesn't stay in the bedroom.
Epic Foreplay
Research actually shows that the afterglow of great sex lasts 48 hours!
First you’ll get the experience of being fully present with your partner, exploring each other, and discovering what makes them completely lose control.
Then you’ll start building the excitement of always having new moves to try, so the bedroom stops feeling like the same routine and starts feeling like somewhere you actually want to be.
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