Ultimate Sex Positions is designed by a sex therapist for real couples… no acrobatics required.
"I can’t believe it was THAT good!"
Whether you have 10 minutes or a whole evening, you’ll always have something new to try together.
Get ready for the kind of sex that makes you look at each other and say,
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We surveyed over 8,400 people about their sex lives.
Sound familiar? Here's where it gets interesting...
of couples
Ultimate Sex Positions gives you 47 new options that will leave you saying, “wait, why didn’t we try this sooner?!”
here's what we found...
rotate between just 2-3 positions.
54%
MORE POSITIONS = MORE SATISFACTION
The pattern is clear: the more positions you regularly use, the happier you are with your sex life.
Couples with 2-3 positions in their regular lineup had an average satisfaction score of
Couples with 4-6 positions had an average satisfaction score of
Couples with 7+ positions had an average satisfaction score of
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So what’s inside Ultimate Sex Positions?
47 illustrated positions, plus the option to add 17 sex pillow positions. The illustrations in our guide are tasteful and playful. They’re detailed without being pornographic. Most importantly, they’re genuinely useful! No questions, uncertainty, or confusion here. Just plenty of inspiration to bring you closer together than ever.
How to maximize pleasure for both partners, especially for women. 91% of women say intercourse isn’t their favorite activity! Every position in the guide includes tips for making it feel incredible for both of you. Because the best sex is the kind where nobody's just along for the ride.
What each position is best for and why, including our recommended (and tested!) sequences. Some positions create deeper penetration. Others make clitoral stimulation easier. Get ready to work all your angles. 😉
Curated adventures. We've mapped out the best combinations so all you have to do is pick your vibe and go. From a night of romance to a fun quickie, you’ll find an adventure to match your mood.
Step-by-step instructions for how to get in and out of each position. No more awkward transition moments.
How to keep each position feeling fresh with exciting variations so your sex life stays hot and full of possibilities. Once you find a position you love, we’ll show you how to switch it up so it never gets boring.
Smart adjustments for real bodies. Different heights, flexibility levels, curves, bellies, pregnancy. We’ll show you how to adapt positions so they work for your bodies.
EXACTLY how to move (i.e. where to place your arms and legs and what to do with your hips) so you can feel confident and actually be in the moment instead of thinking, “What do I do now?"
Here’s what happens when couples start exploring…
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Ultimate Sex Positions Guide (5 NEW positions just added!)
47 illustrated positions with step-by-step instructions on how to get in, how to move, and how to transition out. Each one includes what it's best for, smart adjustments for real bodies, and variations to keep it feeling fresh every time.
You'll discover moves you've never tried, sensations you didn't know were possible, and new favorites you'll both want to revisit again and again.
Instead you'll have a whole pleasure playbook that makes you both feel confident, adventurous, and completely in the moment. The kind of sex where you're both fully there, fully into it, and already looking forward to next time.
Whether you want something slow and romantic, fast and wild, or just something totally new... you'll always have a position (or five) to match the mood.
This is the guide couples tell us they keep coming back to. Not because they have to. Because they want to.
No more rotating between the same two positions because they're the only ones you know.
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Plus, you can add on 17 more Pillow Positions! ($39 value)
Vanessa randomly bought Xander a sex pillow for Christmas, and we got so obsessed with it that we became advisors to the company that makes it!
And now, by popular demand, we built a brand new guide around it for you that you can add on to your purchase!
Not to mention the view… 😜
A few degrees of difference. A whole lot of “OH!”
The pillow we recommend is The Prim, by Tabu, and it is hands down the BEST one we’ve ever tried. (And we’ve tried just about everything.) If you want to check it out, we have a discount for you. Just click this link 👉
Here’s what’s inside The Pillow Positions if you add it to your order:
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17 all-new illustrated positions to use with a pillow or positioner, with dozens of variations. You won't find these anywhere else!
Exactly how to use your pillow or positioner for deeper angles, easier clitoral stimulation, more control, and a lot more comfort.
Ways to take your playtime to a whole new level. Using a prop can help you last longer, take pressure off your knees and lower back, give you more flexibility in positions, and (in our experience) majorly increase satisfaction and pleasure.
But we want to be clear you don't need it to have fun with your bonus! You can use any other pillow or prop with these positions.
AND we’re not done. You’ll also get all of this incredible bonus content:
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That’s over $300 worth of bonuses included when you grab Ultimate Sex Positions.
The bonus that changes everything. Most couples have been approaching intercourse all wrong, and we'll show you exactly why, with the science to back it up. You'll get the 3 Golden Rules every couple needs before they try a single position, including the foreplay mistake almost everyone makes, the ABC rule that instantly makes intercourse better for her, and the orgasm agreement that means nobody gets left behind. Then we'll show you how to close out every session with an afterglow that leaves you both feeling good and pulls you closer. From the first touch to the last, this is the bonus that sets you up to have the best sex of your life.
How To Have The Best Sex Of Your Life
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Ready to see what 50,000+ people told us about their sex lives? We asked our community, “What could your partner do to make sex the best you’ve ever had?” The answers were absolutely fascinating, filled with specific tricks, techniques, and secrets they wished their partner knew. Things like:
> What positions feel best for both of you?
> How do you transition between positions without killing the mood?
> What's the right number of positions for one session?
> What men and women actually want for mindblowing sex every time.
> What positions feel best for both of you?
> How do you transition between positions without killing the mood?
> What's the right number of positions for one session?
> What men and women actually want for mindblowing sex every time.
The Secrets Your Partner Wishes You Knew
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Because sex comes with questions and sometimes real awkwardness. We’ve got you covered. We’re answering questions from real couples that you’re probably afraid to Google. This is for you if you're ready to overcome your sexual hiccups and motivate yourself to start having the best sex you've ever had in your LIFE!
Your Sex Frustrations Solved
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Every single position, illustrated, with a heat rating for each partner and space for notes. Track what you've tried, rate your favorites, and build a shared map of what drives you both wild. This is your couple's playbook and it gets better every time you use it.
Ultimate Position Playbook
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All 47 positions as cut-out cards you can keep in your nightstand. Pull a card and try whatever you get. Use them to surprise each other, plan a date night, or settle the "what should we try tonight?" question once and for all. (Or hide one somewhere for your partner to find. 😏)
Printable Position Play Cards
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EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO TAKE YOUR SEX LIFE TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL.
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Hi! We're
Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience specializing in sex and intimacy. Xander is a regular dude with a fresh perspective (and a very good sense of humor about all of this).
Together, we've helped hundreds of thousands of couples have better, more fulfilling sex.
Together, we've helped hundreds of thousands of couples have better, more fulfilling sex.
YOU'RE GETTING ACTIONABLE ADVICE FROM A REAL SEX THERAPIST IN A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP.
We created Ultimate Sex Positions because we couldn't find anything like it.
Every sex position resource out there was either unrealistic, overly complicated, or just... bad. So we built the one we wished existed!
It’s your playful guide to new moves, new sensations, and a whole lot more fun together.
It’s your playful guide to new moves, new sensations, and a whole lot more fun together.
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That playful energy is baked into every part of Ultimate Sex Positions.
(yes, really)
We Tested EVERY SINGLE POSITION.
When we set out to create Ultimate Sex Positions, we started by doing our homework. Vanessa bought every sex positions book she could find. Scoured every website. Even dug up vintage guides from used bookstores (the 70s and 80s ones are... something else).
We were shocked by how many positions out there are just physically not possible. We're not talking "a little challenging." We're talking your body parts aren't even going to be in the same zip code.
We were shocked by how many positions out there are just physically not possible. We're not talking "a little challenging." We're talking your body parts aren't even going to be in the same zip code.
We ended up testing every position in two rounds.
Basically we were asking ourselves things like, "Are our pelvises even going to be in the same vicinity here?"
If the position seemed promising, then we moved on to round two and actually tried it for real.
But something funny happened during those clothed practice rounds.
Because there was no pressure to make it sexy or get it right, it felt really playful and low-stakes. We could laugh, adjust things, and experiment without that awkward feeling of, "Wait... are we doing this wrong?"
That's actually where the idea for the exploration sessions in the guide came from. We realized how helpful it was to have a way to explore new positions together without any pressure.
Even the positions that didn't work gave us some of our best laughs together. That's the whole point... exploring with your partner should be fun, not stressful.
If the position seemed promising, then we moved on to round two and actually tried it for real.
But something funny happened during those clothed practice rounds.
Because there was no pressure to make it sexy or get it right, it felt really playful and low-stakes. We could laugh, adjust things, and experiment without that awkward feeling of, "Wait... are we doing this wrong?"
That's actually where the idea for the exploration sessions in the guide came from. We realized how helpful it was to have a way to explore new positions together without any pressure.
Even the positions that didn't work gave us some of our best laughs together. That's the whole point... exploring with your partner should be fun, not stressful.
When we couldn't find positions that did what we wanted (better angles, easier clitoral stimulation, something that actually worked for real bodies), we designed them. Vanessa brought the sex therapy expertise, Xander brought the willingness to try anything, and together we came up with 47 incredible positions.
First, we tried the position fully clothed. That way we could get a quick sense of whether it was even worth trying.
The more sex positions in your line up, the better… and here’s why:
Some positions create deeper penetration. Some make clitoral stimulation easier. Some just hit exactly right. But you won’t know it ‘till you try..
They help you discover what really works for your bodies.
Trying a new position usually involves curiosity, a little laughter, and that excited, “ooooh, let’s try this one next” energy.
They keep things playful.
Exploring together creates that “we can’t keep our hands off each other” energy… the kind that has you whispering “don’t stop!” 🥵
They turn up the heat in your relationship.
Every position changes the angle, the depth, the rhythm, and the way your bodies move together. Sometimes the tiniest shift is all it takes to find the spot that makes both of you go, “oh… yeah… that one.”
They turn sex into a choose-your-own adventure.
Because let’s be honest… if you’re rotating between the same two positions every time, things can start to feel a little predictable. A bigger playbook means a lot more ways to have fun together.
They expand your bag of tricks.
FAQs
We think you’re going to have A LOT of fun going through the guide with your partner. We get messages all the time about how just looking at the illustrations together leads to some unexpected and totally incredible sex.
If you do want to say something, keep it light and upbeat. Something like: "You know that couple I follow, Vanessa and Xander? I grabbed their sex positions guide for us. I've seen so many amazing reviews, and I want to see how much fun we can have with it." The key is your tone. If you sound excited, your partner will follow your lead.
OR, just get the guide and skip the conversation!
Go through Ultimate Sex Positions on your own and suggest a new position to try tonight. Once your partner asks, “Where did you learn that from??”, you can say, “I found something fun and wanted to surprise you! There’s more where that came from too...”
If you do want to say something, keep it light and upbeat. Something like: "You know that couple I follow, Vanessa and Xander? I grabbed their sex positions guide for us. I've seen so many amazing reviews, and I want to see how much fun we can have with it." The key is your tone. If you sound excited, your partner will follow your lead.
OR, just get the guide and skip the conversation!
Go through Ultimate Sex Positions on your own and suggest a new position to try tonight. Once your partner asks, “Where did you learn that from??”, you can say, “I found something fun and wanted to surprise you! There’s more where that came from too...”
The guide is designed to make it easy and low-pressure, and that’s why we recommend starting with the exploration sessions (fully clothed!). You just pick something that looks fun, and go from there. Most couples tell us they're laughing and genuinely into it within minutes.
You can definitely find sex positions online. But SO many of them are bad and/or physically impossible. We know. We’ve tried them.
What you can't find is realistic, fun, actually doable positions with step-by-step instructions on how to actually move, smart adjustments for real bodies, curated sequences based on your mood, and guidance from a sex therapist who's spent 20+ years helping real couples. We built what we wished existed and couldn't find anywhere else.
What you can't find is realistic, fun, actually doable positions with step-by-step instructions on how to actually move, smart adjustments for real bodies, curated sequences based on your mood, and guidance from a sex therapist who's spent 20+ years helping real couples. We built what we wished existed and couldn't find anywhere else.
Yes. That's a big part of why we made this guide. Every position includes adjustments for different heights, flexibility levels, curves, bellies, and pregnancy.
We take great care to be as inclusive as possible. That means representation and suggestions for different ability levels, gender identities, orientations, races, body shapes, and sizes.
Some of the content in Ultimate Positions is geared specifically toward cisgender male & female couples, but most of the information can be helpful to anyone who wants to build a stronger sexual connection (and have a lot more fun!) with their partner.
We take great care to be as inclusive as possible. That means representation and suggestions for different ability levels, gender identities, orientations, races, body shapes, and sizes.
Some of the content in Ultimate Positions is geared specifically toward cisgender male & female couples, but most of the information can be helpful to anyone who wants to build a stronger sexual connection (and have a lot more fun!) with their partner.
Imagine a future where…
You're sending each other "that look" across the room because you both know what's happening later…
You have a whole playbook of moves that make you both feel confident, adventurous, and completely in the moment.
You’re having the kind of sex that leaves you both glowing and wanting more.